Quote from: Marvelockg on Today at 02:59:51 PM

Quote from: Zlantann on June 28, 2025, 08:36:18 AM

Quote from: Outhue on June 28, 2025, 08:13:54 AM

What broke my heart was how sad his father was when I told him, he said he trusted the son the most.

At eighteen, the boy is an adult and would take full responsibility for his actions and inactions. Parents indeed need to closely monitor their children's activities online, but at that age, it will be very difficult to watch over that boy. This child simply chose to be a criminal, maybe he was influenced by friends or other agents of socialisation.

children or young adult do not just jump from nowhere into becoming criminal. they go stage by stage from little criminal initiative and when they go uncaught they device other means they can use in stealing in the cyber space or even in the digital space. if you train your child well, even at 20, they will never depart from what you have thought them to commit theft or cybercrime in the society. a child that at 18 is already scamming people is most time a product of a failed parent who did not pay close attention to her child till external influence has made that child an hardened individual. the society works in this simple way, train your child well and you have saved yourself a lot but fail to train your child and the society will help you do so because either way, they must learn from a source.

His kid has free will. If the parents were great the kid may still decide to be a thug.

Parents can do all the correct things and the kid can turn dark.

Parents could be terrible and the kid can turn out okay.

That said most often bad teaching works to make a bad person.

And good teaching most often makes a good person.

I know plenty of well taught kids that came out okay.
Many more come out okay then really bad if the better values of life were pushed over the worse values.

Myself I had a less than ideal upbringing took me years to get set on the correct paths in life. I was born in 1957

I would say 1990 was when I pretty much had sorted the poor examples out and became more of my own person

I was 33 at the time.

I would be fine with the way I have lived my life from 33 to 68 and from 13 to 29 not so happy with those years.

From 30 to 33 was when I really staring to turn myself around.

note I do not count from 1 to 12 as I was far too young.