Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?..
This is a common practice, when you win, you believe that it's all due to your own strategy, and when you lose, a person usually looks for reasons elsewhere, without acknowledging the fact that he made the decision himself and this wrong decision led to a loss.
OP, like many others, is trying to make the topic of gambling a matter of someone else's misfortune, when in reality it's like asking the same question: if you wake up late, it's not your fault; it's because your alarm didn't go off, and then a thousand blames fall on the alarm.
Or perhaps, in truth, we ourselves are the best example by responding to these hackneyed threads, so it's worth asking: whose fault is it OP's, or us who are responding? I don't know, but if this post is "spam," it's OP's fault.
; )