This is true, people who have started or run their own business will understand this better than anyone. When we work for ourselves (become our own boss), we will have to work more, have greater responsibilities and will also face more challenges and risks. It is not as easy or leisurely as when we work for someone.
Everything has its price, if we want to have things that others don't have, we need to go through and do things that others can't. If we want to be a boss, become rich...we need to work hard, sacrifice and make trade-offs because those things don't come naturally. That’s the price we have to pay, and as you said, we’re trying to achieve our dreams, not realizing someone else’s dreams.
People always talk about freedom and that thread is also about that . There are very less people on earth who are living without any boss. There are only 1 percent people know how to get freedom in life and how they will work for theirselves. Otherwise,we are watching people who are thinking about freedom and they think that they are free but they are doing a lot of things fir the owner and theya re living life like a slave . From that kind of life , death is better because life of slave is worse than everything because he can't do anything by his own mind and he have to obey the owner order.There are investors who are doing no work and they are Investing money but everyone can't be investor. We want to start own business and that is not an easy for middle class people.