Quote from: Fiatless on July 05, 2025, 09:14:19 PM

Quote from: Tmoonz on June 28, 2025, 11:37:29 AM

In my observations in our society today,there is an increasing rate up to ninety percent of men that prefer their woman to be pregnant before marriage, reason been that they feel most women have messed up their wombs out of youthful exuberance and may not be able to concieve again and for this reason most bachelors wouldn't want to stay in a marriage without a child and at such they prefer having a confirmed pregnancy result before proceducing for any marital right, what are your stand on this?

In my culture, if you impregnate a girl without marriage, you will pay double the bride price. What that means is that the bride price of a pregnant woman is higher. Religiously, sex before marriage is a sin called fornication.

If you truly love someone, there is no need to check if she is fertile or not. You can adopt a child if she is having fertility problems. And modern technology has made it more easier for people to have children through diverse means.

Was it not before of the affordability of paying the bride price a d other ceremonial obligations that makes some men ran away from going through the normal procedures for getting married and take a shortcut by impregnating the partner, so that things would have been more better for them to pay or completely avoided than the demands their culture can render, but that's not an excuse anyway from going through the normal procedures and rights.