Quote from: Plaguedeath on July 23, 2025, 10:18:41 AM

Quote from: summonerrk on July 22, 2025, 11:08:58 AM

The Internet has greatly influenced the minds of today's generations. Women have heard from Instagram that they should value freedom and love money instead of traditional family values. But in reality, it turns out that this confuses them even more and many of them no longer understand what they want. Although it is obvious that the truths that come from our parents are most important, and the traditional family is the highest value of society. It is very sad to see that mass culture is trying to impose easy and stupid ideals on young minds.

Whenever there are contents about small family life with simple lifestyle in rural areas, you will see many comments where people are saying "when you choose wrong husband be like" "when you married with failed husband be like" etc.

I also see many comments from women accounts where they regret for marrying their current husband, if they have a chance to turn back time, they would choose to not marry their current husband.

Most of them said like this "he's a good father, soft spoken, willing to help domestic work, know how to treat me, never cheat, etc, but he has no ambition and our life are stuck even we're in 10 years of marriage, I regret bla bla bla".

Complaints and other stuffs such as this is normal and you can hear out almost everyday into those people who had been having problems into their partners on which we can say that it is normal.
We are not perfect beings but actions be made should be something that at least that trying out our very best to become responsible specially if we do have our own family then as a family guy or person then we should be that responsible. Relationships or marriage life cant be perfect but doesnt mean that you should be tolerating and criticizing into those small imperfections on which we know that it could definitely happen.
We cant be perfect too on which we might be able to say up something bad towards our partner and this could cause up that possibility on having those divorces or what.

When it comes to financial decisions then both husband and wife does have that needing up to share their ideas and opinions and decide on which one they would be that trying to apply or do with.
In speaking about savings and other related stuffs then it would be that something crucial because money is that a foundation that you would be needing up to take care on with specially when you are raising your own family. You would be needing up money for you to be able to provide all of the things that they would be needing.