Quote from: Pablo-wood on Today at 06:00:45 PM

Quote from: HelliumZ on August 03, 2025, 10:52:35 PM

Quote from: arabspaceship123 on July 31, 2025, 10:47:08 PM

It isn't about women who aren't working it's complicated. If you don't have a partner who's sharing the same ideas you're going to get hurt. If one's saving & the other's spending it's going to end with breaking hearts. You've got to marry after you're sure you've got an understanding.

But the truth is that most women are savers and they like to save, which is the opposite of many men. There are many men who would not think twice about spending money on a bottle of alcohol, but there are many women who think and plan multiple times before spending ten rupees. In this regard, if someone can marry a girl who is a good planner, then the saving spirit that she will have will definitely bring financial prosperity to a man's family.

I think it should be good women and not women generally. When it comes to extravagant spending I think it's not gender specific. There are also women who find it difficult to save and manage finances. Some even create debts for their spouse. Most of this things reveal themselves during courtship but we ignore them thinking it doesn't matter until it begins to choke.

We should not only limit this to women itself but also in men too on which we do know that not all would be that a perfect being on which there would be those lapses and errors when it comes to behaviors and planning.
There's nothing we can do specially on changing them out directly but we can actually have that gradual changes if ever you are that serious with someone or you do really love him/her.
The only thing here is that you do need up to consider into those qualities on which you do really like on a certain person but always think that you arent that also a perfect being. We might be that having
those preferences but you should always reflect out yourself whether you do have lapses too. Always be considerate and the most important of all on which you do need up to adjust on whatever
those lapses in between you and your partner.