It's important we don't talk about women like they're the problem. We know men aren't worse or better than women they're the same they can make mistakes. You've got to consider every thing before choosing your partner you'll have to decide if you're compatible after talking & sharing your thoughts.
We should not only limit this to women itself but also in men too on which we do know that not all would be that a perfect being on which there would be those lapses and errors when it comes to behaviors and planning.
There's nothing we can do specially on changing them out directly but we can actually have that gradual changes if ever you are that serious with someone or you do really love him/her.
The only thing here is that you do need up to consider into those qualities on which you do really like on a certain person but always think that you arent that also a perfect being. We might be that having
those preferences but you should always reflect out yourself whether you do have lapses too. Always be considerate and the most important of all on which you do need up to adjust on whatever
those lapses in between you and your partner.