Quote from: arabspaceship123 on August 11, 2025, 10:55:15 PM

It's important we don't talk about women like they're the problem. We know men aren't worse or better than women they're the same they can make mistakes. You've got to consider every thing before choosing your partner you'll have to decide if you're compatible after talking & sharing your thoughts.

Quote from: milewilda on August 11, 2025, 09:57:51 PM

We should not only limit this to women itself but also in men too on which we do know that not all would be that a perfect being on which there would be those lapses and errors when it comes to behaviors and planning.
There's nothing we can do specially on changing them out directly but we can actually have that gradual changes if ever you are that serious with someone or you do really love him/her.
The only thing here is that you do need up to consider into those qualities on which you do really like on a certain person but always think that you arent that also a perfect being. We might be that having
those preferences but you should always reflect out yourself whether you do have lapses too. Always be considerate and the most important of all on which you do need up to adjust on whatever
those lapses in between you and your partner.

This is why we do have that dating period, right? ON this time on which we are that trying out to know more on someone that we do love. Yes, we arent that perfect but its always been recommended that you should be showing yourself on who you are and on what are the behavior and traits we do have rather than to be with someone and trying to make yourself look cool and perfect, but on the time about marriage then this is where things becomes that getting busted and ending up on having those divorces just because the other one didnt expect that he's or she's something like that and there's nothing we can do about it when things got that more messy. Its true that its not good to make out some judgment already specially we arent that knowing each other on which there would be those traits that we arent been able to seen before we can make out some judgment. Also, whom we are to judge? If you dont like him/her then do just simply tell about their traits or what and if you do love the person then you can make out those changes and adjustments along the way. Not all the time on which everything could be resolved out with having that separation or break ups just because you dont like a certain minimal trait on which your partner do have. Its important that you do think up on the bigger picture.