It's important we don't talk about women like they're the problem. We know men aren't worse or better than women they're the same they can make mistakes. You've got to consider every thing before choosing your partner you'll have to decide if you're compatible after talking & sharing your thoughts.
Parents cannot judge the quality of a person based on the bad things that he or she tells them, since each relationship has its own history. In my opinion, every couple has its own set of values, personality traits, and prospective plans to achieve some goals. To create the relationship on the healthy grounds we should first establish the truthful and secure dialog. We must be able to discuss what we feel comfortable with as we should be able to discuss what irritates us, without the fear of being judged. It is possible to agree that lots of difficulties come as people are just seeing what is on the surface without knowing the possible cause of behavior of their partner.
When we listen to one another, and ask questions, this is a more fair judgment that we have. It is not only in the first reactions that we can determine that a partner would be a good or bad fit, but also during the process that takes place once we socialize with each other in different circumstances. Relationships mature because there is a need to know the direction of life. It should be kept in mind that there is no such thing like a perfect partner, only the ones who would like to develop together. This means that we will make more concrete decisions of being with someone as we will be operating on complete awareness and having respect to the other person.