Quote from: libert19 on Today at 09:37:26 AM

but only few parents live upto parental duties — i.e, giving nurture, care and education.

Because it require to be an autopilot businessman in order to fulfill parental duties, most people are employees or successful businessman (they still need to work), hence they can't.

People work to trade time for money, while nurture and care requires time, parents are working from morning to night in weekdays and seek side hustle in weekend, the kids ended up have no father/mother figure.

When we're single, we have to make our parent proud.
When we're in relationship, we have to make our partner proud.
When we're taken, we have to make our partner proud + kids (optional).

In reality, many people not even able to make their parent proud, they jump to make their partner proud.

Quote from: Free Market Capitalist on Today at 09:27:41 AM

I see many people in developed countries who do not have children or postpone having them indefinitely because they have to go on trips to upload photos to Instagram. It is better to be clear about the unity of the couple, the common life project, and if you have limited resources, you will manage.

Quote from: Synchronice on Today at 10:47:47 AM

but sadly, many prefer to go to clubs every day and then blame others when they hit 40s.

Because women always say "my life isn't only about working and eating, I need to enjoy my life, if I can go to coffee shop/shopping every week, staycation every month, and overseas vacation every six months etc where my single life is happy, I should be more happier after marriage (means fulfill her single life "desire" and hope to get more)"

Quote from: arwin100 on Today at 10:34:25 AM

somehow ready for the consequences then its fine to have a child but take a consideration to have few children so that we can assure to give them proper care and education.

I would say the if a parent want to have a baby, the maximum amount is ONE.