so aside from gambling responsibly, will you agree that we should disclose our gambling habits or is it not the business of our spouses? does gambling really have the capacity to break up a marriage or a family?
If you know that gambling isn't something bad, why will you hide it from your partner. It means that you are not an open-minded person. In marriage nothing should be hidden. My partner knows that I gamble, and she only laugh at me when I lose my bet because she will always tell me that, the club I am betting on will lose the game. Most times, it plays out like that. If your spouse does not want you to gamble, you can give up to keep the marriage.
Someone who's hiding something from his partner have a reason for doing that, maybe his partner doesn't like him gambling and he's desperate to gamble most of the times. But the truth of it all is that keeping secrets with your fiancee will turn into a disaster in the future. If they don't like it you just have to figure out another thing to do which they will like. When it comes to gamble the bother parties should agree on how to do it because if their children future.
But it's obvious that many gamblers don't consider their children future before they make most decisions.