Everyone really have same dilemma on this situation because I guess we share same thoughts that we don't want our love ones to get angry with us that's why we try to hide everything to them.
Yes thats right. Or better yet we should stopped already for their peace of mind but once a gambler will always be one is that even true? Maybe it is but there some people who prolly changed for the better and become equipped with discipline to supress the urge to play.
I wonder myself if I ever be on that situation when the time comes. But ofcouse I cant say it as its impossible to promise.