Quote from: Razmirraz on Today at 01:31:23 PM

Quote from: rodskee on August 26, 2025, 10:33:49 PM

i think the moment we hide our gambling habits from our partners that is the moment we will get in trouble because that is when trust crumbles and when you get in trouble in gambling and have to tell your partner you will be surprising them

The main problem is not hiding gambling from your partner, but because the money that should be used for primary needs is spent on gambling. The increasing number of divorce cases is due to the inability of gamblers to control their emotions, ultimately they lose control and become irresponsible gamblers.
As long as you are able to provide for your wife and children in all aspects, your relationship will remain safe, here it is clear that the main factor is the lack of money in the family.

It makes sense. It's not really a matter of being open with your partner about your gambling the biggest issue in divorce cases is when someone gambles but can't meet their partner's basic needs. Many people gamble even though their partners know about it, but divorce still occurs, primarily due to financial reasons. Likewise, when someone hides their gambling from their partner but maintains financial stability, divorce doesn't occur.

This again depends on the individual gambler. When you gamble excessively or irresponsibly, divorce is highly likely. It's not just about gambling trading or drinking alcohol when household needs aren't being met can also lead to divorce. Therefore whatever you do there must be calculations and responsibility for household finances so that the household remains harmonious.