Of course, there are many other examples in which fuck you has gone wrong,
*cough*
fuck you jjg thursday *cough*
I was thinking about other kinds of examples where saying fuck you goes wrong where the deliverer of the message was not in a solid of enough position to follow through with the intent of his message. Fuck you JJG Thursdays seemed to go wrong for other reasons.
I used to love the idea of having my own day, even if there was a bit of negativism contained therein, but maybe I was either not cooperating enough or maybe I was cooperating too much.
That's a tough sample of an example.
What is the deal with not really being hated enough? Inability to get consensus around the message.
I am pretty sure that BTCETFInvestor would have loved to have had his own day like that.. . .yet he is a bit of an ambiguous character in this whole scene.. which almost causes me to speculate that he might be engaging in his various drama pieces on purpose.
For some reason, he wants and needs attention, yet at the same time, he does not know what to do with such attention when he gets it...
It might be the the line from "A few good men" .
Jack Nicholson directing his statement at BTCETFInvestor: "You know son. You cannot handle the truth."

When someone's position is weak, using strong language is not exactly acceptable. Sometimes, even for other reasons, saying the same thing to a specific person doesn't fit the situation.
We may seem less cooperative in trying to hold our own, and sometimes it goes too far. But the point is to find a balance, and sometimes the easiest way to bring people together is to find a center of hatred. But when that hatred isn't shared strongly enough, it becomes difficult to build consensus around the message. It even feels like a line from A Few Good Men. So as much as he needs attention, he understands that he seeks it, but when he gets it, he doesn't know how to handle it. BTCETFInvestor enjoys the drama of his day, but deliberately places himself in the middle of the scene.