Which doesn't necessarily imply splurging half your stash on the ceremony just because you must.
It's somewhat hard to think with our own head or gut. Social pressure exists.

No need to answer the following questions if not to yourself.

--"Police" questions.
1. 11 years all with the same gal?

2. How old are you?

3. Does she know about the bitcoin?

4. Pick either A, B, or neither. Not both.
A) Do you feel like you owe it to her, or possibly to someone else - e.g., your parents?
B) Do you feel in your gut it's what you want?