What title says,
unless one is well off himself one should not be having kids, this is my opinion.
What about you?
A man is not qualified to marry when he cannot support himself. If he cannot earn his own income, then how will he feed his wife after getting married and how will he establish himself because he himself is an incompetent person. How can he have children if he is not able to earn enough to feed his wife? There is no question of having children here.
Basically there are no retirement moment for man because for their life the man should have ability to feed their family even when they were retire the man should be can earn money to buy family daily needs and having children is the dreaming of some people and the reason why the people want that because they want in the old age those childrens can take care of them but sometimes the parents forget that to raised the children it took a lot of effords and money especially for the increasingly expensive cost of education and these situations too makes some of my friends have decide to childless for their entire life