My ex was an apple fan-girl(?) and even though I tried with all the logic in the world to explain to her why monopoly on infrastructure is a bad thing, she wouldn't listen. Ordinary people just don't give a flying fuck about openness and the importance of real free competition.
There is real competition now. Apple vs Android vs Windows.
Openness - it's not the best for all situations. Most people actually want CLOSED systems.
Take this example:
An OPEN party is happening at a friend's house. Anyone can come to the party. Bring whatever alcohol, drugs they want. Parents will be gone for the weekend. Enjoy!
A CLOSED party is happening at another house. The parents are supervising. No alcohol or drugs allowed. Only a strict guest list is allowed. Entertainment and food provided.
Comparing apples and oranges does not make sense.
If you think that monopoly on infrastructure is totally awesome, there is just nothing I can say that will resonate with you.
Apple is Microsoft from the 90's all over again.