Escrow is a good idea. Will earn trust from participants. IMO, find a reputable escrow and even those who charge a small fee, not one who is pushy, have a paid sig and rather rude.
I would gladly help you with the escrow, if you want me to. I had the following idea:
I always try to do stuff the right way, which earns me a good trust feedback (even though I couldn't escape three negative ones, from two fuckheads)
Like I stated before, I would love to help you out with escrow. If you don't want to work with me then I recommend you to use escrow.ms.