Is it possible to transfer the tokens to a "wallet" on my own instead of leaving it there on Bter?

The token is like unity technically a nxt asset too. So im pretty sure answer is no.

So I should not utilize the TOKEN/NXT exchange on Bter? It looks available to purchase.

Right now its a demo.
Ico will start 06.09.2014 14.00 gmt

mhhhhh .. i don't know if this is correct ! GMT is different from BST ... ( GMT+1 )
http://wwp.greenwichmeantime.com/

I am in the UK, its 10:37 GMT