Quote from: b!z on October 24, 2014, 12:35:07 AM

What car did you get?

Porche Panamera Turbo S

Quote from: Snorek on October 24, 2014, 01:45:52 AM

Another question? If you don't trust your wife even if it is so petty thing like driving your car - why are you with her?

Its not about trusting here. She dinged my bumper by going too deep into the parking spot in an underground parking lot. She's also had it dinged in a parking lot while the car was parked. She's not a bad driver, but not a good one either.

Quote from: rokkyroad on October 24, 2014, 02:01:20 AM

Did you tell her before you bought it she wasn't going to be driving it because of her crappy driving?
Has she got her own car?

If you answered yes to both the above, don't sweat it and keep her away from your car. You can always placate her with expensive jewelry.

She has her own bmw

Quote from: MsCollec on October 23, 2014, 11:46:54 PM

At the end of the marriage, she will likely own 80% of your ~~properties~~ life savings. Get used to it now and let her drive the car.

Quote from: (oYo) on October 23, 2014, 09:24:00 PM

Would you rather her fuck up your car or your relationship? Undecided

Quote from: Xian01 on October 23, 2014, 09:17:30 PM

The way I figure it, my wife owns 50% of my "fun" car. If she want's to drive it, I trust her enough to, and will ungrudgingly deal with whatever improbable outcome that results. Same way I would understand her allowing me to drive her "fun" car if I desired.

Well, when we got engaged she made substantially more than me. When we had our money talk, I figured we would have a joint account and everything goes in there. She felt that wasn't fair. So we ended up going the route where we both put an equal amount into the joint account each month. All shared expenses come out of the joint account. We would also have our own personal accounts. With this arrangement, she had a hell of a lot more spending money than me.

Over the years, I've closed the gap in terms of our salaries. However, I've made quite a bit in my investments over the past several years. Now that I've got a decent amount of personal money, I decided to use it to buy myself a nice car. So really, it is my car, paid for with my money.