Quote from: lepirate on November 07, 2014, 06:26:13 AM

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Quote from: qm7 on November 06, 2014, 05:09:16 PM

Cut all ties. Stop making friends and lose any sense of empathy you may have at once acquired. You can't get hurt if you can't feel.

Worst advice given ever. I tried that a few years ago, and that resulted in a horrible depression and attempted suicide. Undecided

You know why this resulted in such a way? Because you were weak, you are weak.

I however did not cut *all* ties, but I have stopped caring a few years ago. I'm doing great, better than I was before (!).
Now one needs to understand the difference which I did: I like being alone, but I however do not like feeling alone. Once you are unable to feel alone, your problems have been solved.
Stop caring and doing illogical things. I mean there is no logic in doing illogical things is there?

Note: Actually it is up to each individual, where a large number of factors are involved.

I do agree to the "don't care" thing (but maybe not as you meant it). But isn't it better to actually hang out with people instead of just learn not to feel alone?
Also I think that doing illogical things as much as possible makes life waaaaaay funnier. But that's me I guess. Cheesy

making spontaneous decisions != making irrational decisions

True.
But sometimes it can be fun to be completely irrational, whatever I feel like at the moment.

that's spontaneous