A friend of mine needs help. Read his story below and drop your suggestion(s).
"I met this babe last year August, been seeing her for a few years tho but never spoke... We share same passion so when we found out, we hooked up real big... I immediately fell for her, later discovered she was dating someone I knew quite well so I tried not pushing my luck so I don't look stupid... I think that failed woefully cause I later told her and she took no offense tho.
The issue z that I'm beginning to love her more with the passing of each day, and it scares me a lot because I've stopped having interest in any other girl no matter the inner or physical beauty they carry... Like, I love this girl to the sun!!!
I'm getting really frustrated.""
He doesn't love her. He wanted her for sex and it's only an issue now because he's not the only one "tapping that a**". So his EGO can't handle it because he's comparing himself to this "friend" which he probably secretly despises. Realistically he probably knew this friend was dating this woman and to deal with his low self esteem he wanted to see if he could "pull this woman" from this friend to feel superior to him. It didn't work because she didn't stop seeing the guy.
The whole "I'm getting really frustrated" is only because he wanted to use this woman as a pawn and it's not working.
He needs to leave all women alone and seek some self help therapy or find a positive outlet to boost his self esteem.
I'm not buying the "I didn't know" when he said "been seeing her for a few years tho but never spoke" riiiiiiighhht. Like you're friends with a guy but don't know that he's been seeing this woman for years?? He has never shown you pictures of her yet you've been playing stalker for YEARS trying to find a way in? NOT BUYING IT.
If this guy could lie to someone he considers a friend and lie to this woman he's sleeping with then it's even more likely he'd have no problem lying to others with ease.
Honestly I think he's trash and OP you'd do best to drop him before he tries to screw your dog. I'll change my view after he gets therapy.