As you said that you like to get married without having children, i know that it is a personal decision due to what you might have been passing through in a relationship or what you have been seeing within your environment with dose that is married, I'm not here to convince you to go back from your personal decision about marriage but i want to tell you more about having children in the family,
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I don't need a prophet to tell me that you are a Nigerian. I wonder what you have to tell him about child bearing.
...because having children is the beauty of any marriage
Who said so?
The beauty of every marriage is finding a beautiful soul mate to love.
Think of the process where you have all the money and no children that can bear your name or family name when you are no more, that means your chapter have closed, because you were not able to keep your family name going,
When you die, your chapter is closed. What does children bearing your name or family's name do to you when you are dead?
and you should understand that once you have married and your people waited for years and there is know cry of a baby in your house, your people will start calling you barren and with this name that people will calling you, you can't afford to with stand the pressure coming from wife family and that of your own family,
So you want to marry and born so that people won't call you barren and pressure you. It's obvious you are living for people, you don't have the right to advice OP who knows what he wants.
so i want to you to understand children is a bending agent to any family because children always bring happiness and everlasting of a marriage.
No points bro. You are coming from your cultural background. Grow up to the international standard and you will see from the angle Op is seeing.