Actually I have repeatedly told him platonic love is just fine, but that his insistance on perverting it into a sexual relationship later is the problem.
Again, there's a huge difference between platonic love and romantic love. You can
love your close friends, but you can be
in love with only one person. I would ask if the love you feel for your parents is the same as you feel for your friends, and is the same that you feel for Jesus, but since you've apparently never been in love, this question is likely pointless.
Again, if you are having sexual relations with men you are sinning. It's a sad example of cognitive distress that you are unable to come to terms with what I am telling you. You are free to disagree and take the wrong interpretation if you wish, but you will not change what God is telling you.
I base my moral compass on whether something is causing harm or hurting someone. Do you know what the one main difference is between rape and a consensual relationship? Or between any of those things you listed, and a heterosexual or homosexual relationship?
It's troubling that you took I reply I made to someone else and applied it to yourself automatically. It suggests your cognitive dissonance is again in action. Why did you assume your own situation was comparable to rape or theft? I hope it isn't because you have engaged in such actions.
Frankly, I don't even remember the details of why Saul is so pissed at Jonathan.
I'm sorry if you don't like what the passage says, but it is what it is. It doesn't matter how you would like to remember it.
You avoided the question, and, ironically, you were actually the one who simply repeated what was already being said there. So, let me bold it for you:
Why would Jonathan, upon meeting David for the fist time, give up his most prized possessions in a show of giving himself up to David's power? i.e. Those two never met before, and Jonathan just suddenly goes, "Oh, hi. Here's my stuff, and I'm giving my power over to you." Why? How are we supposed to understand his actions?
It must be very chaotic in your mind, as the truth tries to peak through and your perverted urges shut them down. As I said, it is a transference of official position in respect of David's great victory over Goliath. It is the respect of a soldier. Had you actually read the bible, instead of just googling for quotes to support your perversion at random, you may have been aware of that story and why the people, even aside from Jonathan, had such respect for David's reputation.