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Re: Is it wrong to take a temporary break from gambling?
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nara1892
on 26/07/2025, 07:34:32 UTC
It's up to you, meaning all decisions are in your hands regardless of whether you want to continue or take a break, I know and have experienced the same situation as you where I felt that it seemed like this was a lucky phase for me and of course I also had the thought that it seemed like I should continue playing before the luck disappeared, but logically that is actually a wrong thought because after all we never know when the luck will disappear. So I think the best decision you can take at that time is to just take a break, or if you want to continue playing but make sure only with small bets, the reason is that the fear of losing luck which will drain all the amount you have won before.
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Re: Be careful with nostalgia
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nara1892
on 25/07/2025, 17:39:34 UTC
IMO, it's not a problem if your goal is to have fun, meaning what's dangerous is if your goal in gambling is to win by choosing retired athletes. After all, usually when senior athletes return to fight, it's usually just for fun, to remember their past, like a friendly match, and if we watch and bet on it, our intention should also be just to have fun, to enliven the event. That also means if you don't want to lose money, it's better not to bet, or switch your bets to other matches where the athletes are still actively competing, unless you don't mind losing money, that's all.
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Re: What is your point of no return?
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nara1892
on 25/07/2025, 15:57:56 UTC
Personally, I usually stop when I win my first bet, or when my stake reaches my loss limit, or when I'm bored with the game.

In my opinion, the right time to stop depends on each gambler. For example, if they're addicted, they'll likely stop when they're all gone. If they win, they'll usually continue until they're satisfied and then lose again. So, in my opinion, the skill of stopping at the right time is likely only achieved by responsible gamblers who aren't overly obsessed with winning. Wink
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Re: How can you enjoy the game when you are losing?
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nara1892
on 25/07/2025, 14:19:39 UTC
It will depend a lot on how much you bet and how much you lose, especially if the bet amount is high, meaning if you lose a lot, it will take a long time to forget about that loss. But if you bet a small amount of money, then of course you will lose, so the gambler should not have any major regrets. But in my case, if I explain, I bet very little, and if I lose, then this loss does not create a situation that hurts my mind. And I forget the feeling of this loss and start living a normal life again.

Yes, it all depends on the size of the bet. That's what determines a gambler's level of frustration, especially if they come with the goal of winning. Logically, there's no joy in losing. But if the question is whether a gambler can enjoy the game even if they lose, the answer is yes, of course they can. The enjoyment in gambling lies in the process of playing.

By the way, you have a good approach to gambling by only betting small amounts. That's how gambling should be done. Besides minimizing losses, this approach also won't affect your mental and psychological well-being when you lose.
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Re: perbedaan Judi=investasi=menabung
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nara1892
on 24/07/2025, 18:13:40 UTC

Makanya setiap investor itu harus tidak lebih dari 20 persen aset yang mereka miliki di investasikan, karena sangat beresiko jika semua aset atau dana yang kita miliki itu di investasikan ke dalam market karena market crypto itu cenderung fluktuatifnya tinggi, harus punya dana cadangan untuk kebutuhan hidup. karena kalau di investasikan semua jika terjadi penurunan kita tidak harus menjual aset yang kita miliki dalam keadaan rugi.
Kebanyakan investor biasanya menggunakan uang dingin atau uang yang mereka simpan tersendiri untuk berinvestasi daripada uang itu hanya diam di rekening lebih baik untuk di masukkan ke dalam invesatasi agar mendapatkan keuntungan di masa mendatang, namun uang untuk investasi tentunya harus di bedakan dengan dana darurat karena konteksnya sudah berbeda investasi di kripto tidak bisa di ambil kapan saja karna harganya yang fluktuaktif jika menaruh semuanya kita tidak tahu akan mengalami kerugian atau keuntungan jadi sebelum berinvestasi kita harus membagi bagi dana terlebih dahulu untuk kebutuhan dan juga untuk tabungan jangka panjang agar tidak salah langkah.

Tentu, berinvestasi dengan menggunakan uang dingin atau uang di luar dari untuk kebutuhan merupakan pendekatan yang wajib di miliki oleh seorang investor agar alokasi aset mereka tidak terganggu, jadi secara sederhana bisa di katakan bahwa ketika seseorang ingin menjadi investor maka dia harus membagi uangnya pada beberapa tempat, setidaknya 3 tempat, pertama uang untuk memenuhi kebutuhan sehari - hari, kedua dana darurat untuk meminimalisir segala sesuatu yang terjadi secara tidak terduga di masa depan dan terakhir dana yang di alokasikan pada aset  investasi yang di percayai seperti bitcoin di pasar spot, semua itu harus di persiapkan agar dana yang ada di aset kita tidak terganggu karena kebutuhan atau hal lainnya yang harus di selesaikan dengan uang.
Jadi bisa di simpulkan juga bahwa mereka para investor yang gagal di tengah jalan dalam artian mengambil kembali sebagian asetnya itu karena di awal pendekatan mereka tidak memulai investasinya dengan tiga hal di atas.
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Re: When gambling what do you measure? Luck or chances?
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nara1892
on 24/07/2025, 16:52:04 UTC
It's true that each game has different odds, like sports betting and casino games, for example. In sports betting, a gambler can choose odds that are measured according to their betting courage. However, in casino games, there's nothing you can measure. Everything depends on luck, and that luck can never be measured. You never know how lucky you are at a given moment. You never know if you could have won much bigger if you had continued playing at that moment.

I'm one of those gamblers who prefers casino games over sports. There's no way I can measure anything to even get an indication of a win. I usually stop when the first win occurs.

Luck is a fickle thing, and when you play you don't know what you'll get, but with chances you can choose the odds you want, or get a big parlay with a small bet that can bring you a big win. Although in reality I do this very rarely, for me it's better to choose an event in which I'm confident and get a small win and satisfaction from the win, than to hope to get a big win someday.

That's the problem. Luck is a volatile thing. We never know when it will come or go. This is why a gambler must have the skill to stop at the right time. Overall, it's more enjoyable to bet on sports because we can see the odds and adjust them to our abilities and courage, even though winning is essentially speculative.

I, like you, prefer small wins to hoping for significant, yet elusive wins. The point is, gamble according to your abilities and beliefs without any coercion from anyone.
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Re: How can you enjoy the game when you are losing?
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nara1892
on 24/07/2025, 14:12:02 UTC

Well, I have never once heard of any gambler who enjoys losing at gambling. Obviously, the adrenaline and pleasure of gambling can only be obtained from winning, while prolonged losses can only lead to stress and then to a tilt if a gambler does not stop in time.

You can definitely get an adrenaline rush from the process. For example, if I place a bet and watch the match, there will be plenty of adrenaline, especially if there are many dangerous moments near my team’s goal. But no one gets any pleasure from losing. To enjoy it, you need to win. And if gambling gives you only an adrenaline rush without any satisfaction, I think no player would be able to keep playing for very long.

Well that's it, I think it's like that too, what I mean by adrenaline is beyond the outcome of the game, win or lose, as you said that adrenaline occurs when a gambler goes through the process, whether it's a dangerous moment that can make us lose or a fun moment that can lead us to victory, but for the problem of losing, of course there is no pleasure there, logically in any case no one is happy with the name of losing money, but from another point of view such as a responsible mentality, a gambler can exchange the loss with entertainment from the process, when I lose I don't think that, I just think that it's not my time to win yet.
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Re: When gambling what do you measure? Luck or chances?
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nara1892
on 23/07/2025, 18:37:47 UTC
It's true that each game has different odds, like sports betting and casino games, for example. In sports betting, a gambler can choose odds that are measured according to their betting courage. However, in casino games, there's nothing you can measure. Everything depends on luck, and that luck can never be measured. You never know how lucky you are at a given moment. You never know if you could have won much bigger if you had continued playing at that moment.

I'm one of those gamblers who prefers casino games over sports. There's no way I can measure anything to even get an indication of a win. I usually stop when the first win occurs.
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Re: How can you enjoy the game when you are losing?
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nara1892
on 23/07/2025, 17:36:12 UTC
I'm not being hypocritical, but the most enjoyable part of gambling is the success of winning. As you said, multiplying your money tenfold or even tenfold is what makes gambling so popular. There's an incredible thrill that comes from that success.

But the problem is, gambling isn't always about winning; losing is always a part of the game and we can't avoid it. This is where the problem lies. No matter how high or hard we try, it still won't completely prevent us from losing.

This means that a gambler shouldn't place excessive expectations on winning, as otherwise, the risk is enormous, and the amount of loss can be even greater due to uncontrolled emotions driven by disappointment.

Therefore, the best approach to gambling, in my opinion, is to bet small amounts to avoid being too disappointed when losing and to maintain control without losing the desire to win.
Lets just accept the fact that the main reason on why we do gamble is to experience winning and make simply money and this is fact. We are just that making up some excuse that we do need to have some fun but actually whats inside our minds is on how we do able to make money and its true that losing money is never been that an enjoyable thing and one of the reasons on why we are that experiencing those urges and impulsiveness on which it would be causing up that kind of mistakes when we are doing gambling specially when it comes on spending money on which this will be the usual case for most gamblers. When you do tend to have some gamble then you should be that expecting that you would be that losing and its normal and thats why its important that you do know on when to move on and would be that calling it a day. The most issue for most people is that they've been that too impulsive up that much because they've been expecting something.

Enjoy the game on which the amount that it is allocated for this one is the amount that you are that ready for you to lose. Dont risks your life savings or emergency funds because this is where you would be usually be finding yourself having some issues when it comes to self control.

Of course, the reason is quite simple: we all need money. So, when someone finds a place where they're given the opportunity to multiply their money, they'll always try to win. Unbeknownst to them, their enthusiasm has clouded their view of the risks, which is why many gamblers experience failure.

It's okay to hope for a win, but make sure that hope isn't excessive. The reason, as I mentioned earlier, is that the risk of losing is always a possibility.
You're also right that the ability to stop at the right time is crucial, but I believe that only gamblers who realize that gambling isn't just about winning will possess it. Wink
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Re: Have you been addicted to gambling in the past.
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nara1892
on 23/07/2025, 15:45:04 UTC
For a few months I dealt with this and I made significant progress...most people think it's impossible to stop gambling addiction totally, well this isn't going to be easy, you can't automatically stop gambling addiction even in three months but decisions and conscious efforts you would come out of it..find something else to do that can take up your time and focus, make sure that it's something profitable

Yes, it means that addiction is not impossible or incurable, it is not easy to cure, this also means that the process is quite difficult and complicated, and one of the reasons why addiction is not easy above is in my opinion because the disease lies in the mindset of a gambler, isn't everything that has become a habit very difficult to change? Well, that's it, plus there is an inherent hope in the mindset of addicted gamblers to get big wins like other people, in my opinion it is a fact that everything related to "the opportunity to get money" is often favored and it is also a fact that addicted gamblers seem not to see the big risks behind every game they play, the key to recovering from addiction in my opinion depends on the intention based on strong awareness.
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Re: Which is more regrettable?
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nara1892
on 22/07/2025, 18:31:41 UTC
Let's say when gambling, you follow a specific pattern. Let us use lottery for example. You bet on the same specific set of numbers. What would be more regrettable? Betting on the same set of numbers for the rest of your life and not winning or... changing up the set you bet on only for your old set to win?

Basically, would you rather bet on the same thing again and again then regret not exploring more or explore different kinds of bets then miss out on a win?

So far, I prefer to do it randomly, meaning I don't enter the same numbers every time I place a bet, even if the time is different, especially if the previous bet lost. But sometimes, even if the previous bet turned out to be correct, I still don't put the same numbers in the next bet because I understand that a method that worked the previous time won't guarantee a win in the next session. So, basically, I do or make random decisions in each different session, especially in the lottery.
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Re: Would you allow your underage kid to use your detail for KYC after a big win.
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nara1892
on 22/07/2025, 11:29:51 UTC
Hmm, okay, overall, yes, it's true that minors are strictly prohibited from gambling. However, if the situation is as you described, OP, where a child wins big without their parents knowing and then needs personal information to withdraw the money, then I would allow my child to use my personal information. The reason? Because it would be pointless, even if I didn't provide my personal information at the time, my child would still be suspected of gambling and thus be able to win.

I'm not killing two birds with one stone, but that's a significant amount if it really happened. And perhaps after I successfully withdraw it, I'll tell my child that it's an activity that shouldn't be done by small children. I know the warning might not be effective, but after that, I'll give my child my full attention.
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Re: How can you enjoy the game when you are losing?
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nara1892
on 22/07/2025, 01:54:12 UTC
A gambler's sole objective is to win, to multiply their bet, if possible by 10x, 100x. So why play free games? What drives a gambler is adrenaline, the excitement of a good poker hand, the sound of the roulette wheel spinning, or the dice rolling. And the main thing is money, the desire to win, the fear of losing. Without that, what's the point?

I'm not being hypocritical, but the most enjoyable part of gambling is the success of winning. As you said, multiplying your money tenfold or even tenfold is what makes gambling so popular. There's an incredible thrill that comes from that success.

But the problem is, gambling isn't always about winning; losing is always a part of the game and we can't avoid it. This is where the problem lies. No matter how high or hard we try, it still won't completely prevent us from losing.

This means that a gambler shouldn't place excessive expectations on winning, as otherwise, the risk is enormous, and the amount of loss can be even greater due to uncontrolled emotions driven by disappointment.

Therefore, the best approach to gambling, in my opinion, is to bet small amounts to avoid being too disappointed when losing and to maintain control without losing the desire to win.
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Re: Have you been addicted to gambling in the past.
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nara1892
on 22/07/2025, 00:10:38 UTC
Okay, I'll answer. Honestly, I've been addicted before, exactly a year ago, and it lasted for about two years. I don't know what caused my addiction, but the intense gambling environment made it difficult for me to set any boundaries. The horrific experiences I experienced during my addiction included selling my belongings, going into debt, stealing, having problems with my family and being shunned by them.

Nothing helped me overcome my addiction. I did it purely out of courage when I realized how severe my gambling approach had become. It all started with one step: isolating myself from the gambling environment and removing all access to it, such as local bank accounts, cleaning and changing my email address, and adding work to my free time.

During this process, I never gave myself a single moment without any activity, because when that happened, the urge to gamble would always haunt me.

My most effective advice for overcoming addiction is to have the courage to remove all access to it. That's all, and good luck. Wink
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Re: Am I a bad father for letting my daughter gamble?
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nara1892
on 21/07/2025, 17:35:13 UTC
I can't say you're a bad father, but I'm confident that a good father wouldn't knowingly allow his child to gamble. This means that a good father knows what's good and bad for his child. Personally, even if I had full access to ensure my children became responsible gamblers, I'd prefer not to allow them to gamble.

The reason is that we can't keep an eye on them forever. There's a phase when children grow up, which can create a distance between them and their parents, and they often no longer want to be treated like children. I worry that they could eventually become aggressive gamblers. That's a very real possibility, so I prefer not to give my children any access to gambling, or even just to watch it.
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Re: When you're winning you can't sleep
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nara1892
on 21/07/2025, 16:57:41 UTC
I think it will be proper to say that gambling dont makes us sleepy, if not we are already playing same game for hours Cheesy And of course when we are winning we cant sleep, because greed forces us to win more and more, or ty to win back what was lost. Imho gambling give such emotions, that keep person awake for long time. I dont know what is secreted in our brain, but that makes us continue gambling non-stop, and we would stop only if our body feels really exhausted.
I believe that the gamblers you are referring to are those who have the wrong approach to gambling such as making gambling a place to multiply money or to earn income because in most cases that kind of mentality often makes it difficult for them to stop in a win or lose situation, simply when they win they will continue to be greedy and when they lose they will continue to try to recover the amount they have lost, meaning that the topic created by the OP is most likely directed at gamblers who play with the wrong mindset and goals, because if for example we are responsible gamblers then I don't think the situation of winning or losing should disturb our sleep time.
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Re: What's your advice to newbies who wants to trade.
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nara1892
on 20/07/2025, 19:06:06 UTC
Because not all are here to listen and follow good advice. Some just forget about it and continue doing what they think is right.

In fact, we have to be thankful to those old traders for sharing how they stepped out of their mistakes for us to change. Unfortunately, instead of doing what they say, we do the opposite and commit the same mistakes that the old traders did before. I could say that no matter how much advice we give, nothing happens if we don't see it as valuable. We are still doing wrong before we learn something.
It is better to learn through the mistake of others, than to have a bad experience. I suspect that the reapn why some trader don't take advice from experience ones is because of greed. They want to make quick money from trading, so they end up taking uncalculated risks that can lead to big losses. Some of them end up learning their lesson the hard way when they suffer losses. I am not an active trader because I have not gained enough knowledge to start my trading adventure.

It's true, because prevention is always better than cure. Learning doesn't always have to come from one's own experience. There are many other people's experiences that we can learn from. I also agree with you that one of the reasons why traders, especially beginners, often find it difficult to accept advice from others is because of greed. Furthermore, they often have a selfish and arrogant nature, thinking they can do something right to achieve large profits when in fact they are trading with the wrong approach.

For me, trading is an activity that takes a lot of energy and time to learn. There are many things that must be considered in detail, such as when the right time to enter and when the right time to exit. Many beginners enter at the wrong moment, which actually results in significant losses instead of profits. Greed, laziness, arrogance, and selfishness are often difficult to overcome in traders, especially beginners.
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Re: When you're winning you can't sleep
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nara1892
on 20/07/2025, 17:27:14 UTC
I think winning and losing can be two situations that can disturb a gambler's sleep, I have experienced it when I win where the disturbance occurs because of the feeling of joy and the image of a good game that I managed to win or other things such as thinking about various plans to spend the money, and when losing it can also happen, it is even very possible that it occurs because of disappointment or depression or even feelings of stress that befall a gambler that make their mind restless and usually this happens to irresponsible gamblers who bet with an amount that they cannot afford to lose, meaning that sleep disturbances in my opinion can occur due to these two situations.
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Re: What first got you into gambling, and what keeps you coming back?
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nara1892
on 20/07/2025, 16:49:36 UTC
To be honest, I got involved in gambling because of environmental influences. Most of my friends were quite active gamblers, which gradually influenced me, and I became curious enough to join in. There was no coercion, pressure, or threats from anyone to gamble. I think most people have similar experiences, namely, environmental influences that lead them to gambling.

By the way, I started gambling around my 20s and am now 23, meaning I've been involved in the gambling world for three years. Fortunately, I'm in a responsible gambling environment. Many of my friends always remind me to only bet small amounts, so I haven't experienced any problems as a result of gambling.
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Re: Had my gambling history on track recently.
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nara1892
on 20/07/2025, 13:46:37 UTC
Sometimes about 2 months ago, I was really engaged in gambling and I was so comfortable even discovering new games from the casino and gambling sites that I have been playing with.
It was really fun even while I was loosing a lot because I was keeping every of the games outcomes updated with my very good friend and he was also playing and updating me from his own end.
You see how it really got the fun?
But as time goes I checked my gambling history and it appeared that I have been playing more than my plans which has also got to affect my bankroll because I began gambling without plans anymore.

I was not feeling comfortable about it anymore because I had that felling that I may have fallen addicted unknowingly. So I took it upon myself and decided not to gamble for atleast 1 month with attentiveness to observe the state of my emotions if it is going to feel troubled or worried over the while on the break.
But I am glad to say that I am still in control of myself and my emotions are in good conditions. There was no single feeling like I was really missing something I can not do without.
So in the past few days now I resumed to gamble and could still maintain those conscious and responsible gambling person.


Never consider gambling a part of your life. View gambling as if you are gambling for fun, there is no need to profit from gambling, if you start with such a mentality, you have self-control over yourself. set boundaries of money and time for gambling responsibly. remember that greed leads to destruction because gambling to get back the money you lost and getting into financial crisis again and again is due to the failure of your self-control. Where to stop gambling, where to start this is a strategy for gambling. whoever does not have this strategy, it can be said that he does not have control. this is a very good point @po It is wise to manage gambling with a positive attitude and self-control.

Yes, that's how it should be. As you said, never consider gambling a part of life. Think of it as mere entertainment, like going on vacation or going to the movies. The scenario is that you exchange money for pleasure. When we go on vacation, don't we always expect to make a profit? Yes, that's how every gambler should think when they want to gamble.

On the other hand, I believe one of the reasons why gamblers struggle to be responsible or always chase winning is because the goal of winning is money. Therefore, I've always considered winning at gambling as nothing more than a bonus.