Im not sure that this is still important for you, but it seems to me that the main thing is to be yourself, to do what you like, to strive for your goals, to do good to other people. One day you may meet someone you really like. Just start communicating with this person, and if you are interesting to another person, then just sincerely give him warmth and ask nothing in return. And then the other person will give you even more. If you have different "levels", then start first of all with yourself, love yourself, start developing yourself, and then you will meet another person who really like you.