Quote from: junder on February 16, 2024, 04:00:14 PM

In my opinion, there are very few young people who can manage their finances well and think about their future. In fact, in my opinion, many young people only think about temporary pleasures, where they compete to be stylish because they want the amount of praise they get, or maybe this only happens in my country. because in my country there are many young people like this, they tend not to think about their future until they spend their money just to be stylish and enjoy their youth full of fun.

That's true, in fact, in my opinion, if we are already married, we should have a steady income, because there are other souls that we have to support, such as a wife and children if we already have children. and I think having a steady income when you get married can be said to be mandatory. because if you are married but don't have a steady income, I think the household could fall apart. I agree with you, starting a marriage is the beginning of a life where we have full responsibility for those around us. therefore we must have a steady income to survive.

When we want to try, there will definitely be a way to get sustenance, therefore we need to go through this process because Allah also tells humans to try and pray. The problem of getting married will be much more difficult when someone does not have a permanent job because usually the first five years of marriage are tested financially and unfortunately there are still many people who are unable to pass this test. A small income is definitely enough as long as it is stable because the problem is when people are unable to earn money to meet their daily living needs as a family.

Young people are more productive and have creative ideas to develop their potential, but don't be afraid of failure when starting out and children's dependence on technology can easily be used to make money. If at a young age he has been thoroughly prepared for all the processes for life, then when he gets married, life will not be chaotic because he has the option to support his family.

Quote from: red4slash on February 16, 2024, 08:03:22 PM

Well there is nothing wrong with that but on the other hand this also backfires and becomes a regret that cannot be eliminated.
I worked for a few years in a very toxic pressure but with a salary that was not even comparable to the work I did but because I had a pretty memorable work friend I stayed in that job for a few years but after I looked for a new job with a more decent salary I started to think that sometimes getting out of the zone that is not too good and trying new things is not a bad thing because in the end we can still enjoy the youth we want while earning more money from the work we do.

I agree with saying parenting in this case because indeed this also supports to make our attitude whether it can be more directed or even become someone who is wrong. the role of parents is important besides that the environment also cannot be separated just like that because after all, with the role of good parents and a healthy environment it will actually make your personality change and vice versa when the environment is bad and the role of parents who do not have good parenting, this will make the situation worse and make our attitude become poorly controlled.

Rather than leaving the job but there is no guarantee that we can get another job, in my opinion it is better to stay employed even though the salary is small. A small, stable salary every month will be much better than a large salary that we don't earn regularly and is unstable, as long as we don't get another job then the decision to stay will be much better. Getting out of your comfort zone is indeed necessary, but it requires deep analysis of the decisions you make because if you make a mistake it can actually jeopardize your decision to make money.

Parental control when children enter adolescence is quite important because our character begins to form at that age. The role of parents is quite large in the child's growth process and if the education given is right then the child will be well directed on the right path, especially when talking about work. Because there are many parents who ignore their children and they demand that their children be more successful than them, but the parenting style provided does not support the child's success at all.