Shit happens, I get it. Now that you are settling things and getting over the family problems, start by communicating with your lender and starting the repayment process.
hopefully he'd pay though and @shasan will have a payday, hopefully the interests accrued would be paid too.
He claims that he repaid the loan, though @Shasan is yet to confirm this in this thread. Personally, what OP did was inappropriate. Even if he got into a big mess. Communicating to the lender about what was going on was so important. Going silent was definitely stupid.
I haven't had a PC in 2 years believe it or do not but talk with the person whom has my loan we have discussed it. My debt is settled! Add that to your trust.