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Quote from: Nothingtodo on September 04, 2025, 02:11:32 PM

Quote from: libert19 on August 20, 2025, 07:45:53 AM

What title says,

unless one is well off himself one should not be having kids, this is my opinion.

What about you?

A man is not qualified to marry when he cannot support himself. If he cannot earn his own income, then how will he feed his wife after getting married and how will he establish himself because he himself is an incompetent person. How can he have children if he is not able to earn enough to feed his wife? There is no question of having children here.

Basically there are no retirement moment for man because for their life the man should have ability to feed their family even when they were retire the man should be can earn money to buy family daily needs and having children is the dreaming of some people and the reason why the people want that because they want in the old age those childrens can take care of them but sometimes the parents forget that to raised the children it took a lot of effords and money especially for the increasingly expensive cost of education and these situations too makes some of my friends have decide to childless for their entire life

Financial stability is one of the most important factors when considering starting a family without a reliable income or savings any unexpected event like medical emergencies job loss or even sudden economic changes can create pressure that makes raising children extremely difficult it’s not just about providing food or shelter but also education healthcare and opportunities for growth without preparation parents and children can both suffer long term consequences.Emotional readiness is just as critical raising kids takes constant attention patience and energy parents who are struggling to support themselves financially often cannot meet these needs which can affect children’s development education and overall well being it’s not just about wanting children but being able to give them a safe and supportive environment.

Society often glorifies parenthood as an achievement but responsible parenting is about timing planning and stability choosing to stay childless or delaying parenthood can be a conscious and smart decision it allows individuals to focus on personal growth career stability and building a foundation that can support a family in the future when the time is right children can then be raised in an environment that nurtures them properly and ensures they have the best possible start in life.