The input's balance isn't relative to the size.
Whether a UTXO is 1BTC or 10,000sat, the size is almost the same (the difference will be too minimal to notice).
The number of inputs/outputs dictate the size.

Using the instruction above,
I suggest you to sort them by amount and make another transaction using the smaller inputs using a very small fee like 1sat/byte (consolidate).
If you're in a hurry and need to use high fee, spend from the high balanced ones and as much as possible, select fewer than 5 inputs for high fee transactions.

Check the total fee in your 2nd image  

That particular transaction is 10.9kB larger than the default maximum allowed transaction size which is 100,000 bytes.
There must be a lot of inputs included.

I guess you're sending all of your wallet's balance....
But anyways, try to remove some of the low-value inputs by displaying the Coins tab (View->Show Coins),
then freeze (right_click->freeze) the one's with very low amount to exclude them to your transaction.

The server returned an error while sending the transaction.
Try connecting to another server or updating Electrum.

Transaction was rejected due to too large size (in bytes).